"In all battles of the heart over the mind, go with your heart.
Because, truly, it's a lot easier for your mind to catch up with your heart, than for your heart to catch up with your mind. A whole lot.
Tallyho,
The Universe"
Many carries their heart on their sleeves, which can somewhat be good or bad, depending on the situation. Exposing yourself emotionally to people that can hurt you could possibly leave you scarred for years, and hardened your heart and miss opportunities with the right people, because of your past negative experiences. There is never really a miracle solution when it comes to the matters of the heart. As in my previous post, humans have around 60 000 thoughts circulating through their mind every day, so it would be difficult for your heart to emotionally connect with all these thoughts. You would be an emotional wreck by mid-morning.
Controlling emotions is crucial and allowing yourself to determining when and how you will allow yourself to be more open with another individual is really up to you. Some really never learn from previous relationships and always are attracted to the same wrong people and constantly pursue them because of the level of comfort and tolerance they have built through the years with the same kind of personalities.
Psychiatrist and psychologist have tried for many years to determine the reasons as to why the human mind responds differently to similar external triggers between several individuals. When faced with a difficult challenge, humans may react differently to the same output, depending on the individual's personality. You choose what is the best way for you to deal with your own obstacles. Look at it as a learning experience.
When similar situation arise in your future, you would automatically know where to invest your energy in and find a quick solution based on what was done in the past. Because of you learning and improving yourself, you will be quick in finding the best route for optimal results. No more guessing work. Hence, when challenges occur in your life, welcome them with open arms and embrace these opportunities. Give yourself credit for not repeating the same mistakes over again and look forward to a better future for yourself and whoever else you will encounter in your life journey.
Because, truly, it's a lot easier for your mind to catch up with your heart, than for your heart to catch up with your mind. A whole lot.
Tallyho,
The Universe"
Many carries their heart on their sleeves, which can somewhat be good or bad, depending on the situation. Exposing yourself emotionally to people that can hurt you could possibly leave you scarred for years, and hardened your heart and miss opportunities with the right people, because of your past negative experiences. There is never really a miracle solution when it comes to the matters of the heart. As in my previous post, humans have around 60 000 thoughts circulating through their mind every day, so it would be difficult for your heart to emotionally connect with all these thoughts. You would be an emotional wreck by mid-morning.
Controlling emotions is crucial and allowing yourself to determining when and how you will allow yourself to be more open with another individual is really up to you. Some really never learn from previous relationships and always are attracted to the same wrong people and constantly pursue them because of the level of comfort and tolerance they have built through the years with the same kind of personalities.
Psychiatrist and psychologist have tried for many years to determine the reasons as to why the human mind responds differently to similar external triggers between several individuals. When faced with a difficult challenge, humans may react differently to the same output, depending on the individual's personality. You choose what is the best way for you to deal with your own obstacles. Look at it as a learning experience.
When similar situation arise in your future, you would automatically know where to invest your energy in and find a quick solution based on what was done in the past. Because of you learning and improving yourself, you will be quick in finding the best route for optimal results. No more guessing work. Hence, when challenges occur in your life, welcome them with open arms and embrace these opportunities. Give yourself credit for not repeating the same mistakes over again and look forward to a better future for yourself and whoever else you will encounter in your life journey.
Dr Dan Amzallag, PhD, MBA, CLC
Author/Inspirational Speaker/Life Coach
Free Consultation: 301-325-1550
Website: http://www.lifecoachdanamzallag.com