The Art of Being More Forgiving

The Art of Being More Forgiving

By Rosina S Khan

Is it really possible to forgive others and let go of the past? It would be good if it were possible for you. As for me, I have faced serious challenges in the past and it has been hard for me to forgive anyone. So how am I still surviving and thriving? Read on to find out.

When you find it hard to forgive others, especially those who have wronged you pretty bad, leave the entire matter to God, the Almighty. Don't be revengeful. But simply forgive yourself and forgive for being in that situation.

In your prayers to God, ask for forgiveness from Him. That way you find peace both from your side and God's side. It cannot be easier than this. With time, you will flourish again, be on top of the world and soar high of course, with enough dedication, commitment, perseverance and hard work.

Therefore, the art of being more forgiving has nothing to do with others. You can forget that. It's possible to thrive the way I mentioned above.

Will old enemies turn up again in your life? Remember you were the victim then and you are forgiving yourself for being in that situation. Whatever they had to do with you, they had already done that damage to you earlier in your life. But their presence again in your current or later life means no menace. Only you will feel like taking revenge and the bad memories will surface. Your enemies have long forgotten what they have done.

In that case, do not seek revenge. As I already mentioned, leave it to God. He is the most knowledgeable and He knows how to tackle things for them. He will take care of the matter. So don't bother to take the matter in your hands when they show up. Forgive yourself again and ask for God's forgiveness. Live by this rule and you will keep flourishing.

You may share your past experiences with your spouse or best friend. It will help you to release old resentments and pent-up anger. Do this more often until you are at peace with yourself so that you can be at peace with others.

Whenever the past haunts you, try to get over it once and for all. Place both your hands over your chest and say, "I love myself." Once you relearn to love yourself, you are free to start loving humanity again. This is how you free yourself from the past and it is also a scheme for forgiving yourself.

With the hints and tips in this article, I hope you are clear that forgiving yourself from various angles pays off really well and you can start to breathe in fresh air again and enjoy back the mojo of life. Don't be revengeful- never, never!! It will only hurt again and people will be hurt. In fact, it will turn out to be a massacre. So under all circumstances, the art of being more forgiving is to forgive the highly esteemed and gorgeous You. Remember it. And you will have your highs.

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