We Can't Help Everyone, But Everyone Can Help Someone

Why is helping others important? We cannot help all but definitely, we can help someone one way or another. For some, helping others is their obligation. For others, helping others is the last thing on their minds. There are plenty of ways to help. You are a person who is taking time out of your life for them. You are doing it because you want to, not because it's your job and you have to. That alone makes a huge difference to many.

The ability to read and write is one. Skill in social situations is another. These are places where we can help as well. But not everyone has the time. They can help as well. Food for the hungry costs money. Shelter for the homeless and displaced costs money. Books for learning to read cost money.

It's about how we see ourselves, and how we live our lives. We can all do something to help others. It might not be every day. It might not even be every week or month. But we can help. Because in helping others, we also help ourselves. What can you do to help?

It's true that you can't help everyone in the world. However, you can help at least one person. Don't ever give up on being a good person. Pick and choose where you spend your time being generous. This isn't selfish; this is prudent. Our prime purpose in this life is to help others. And if you can't help them, at least don't hurt them.

We help others because when you give help to someone in need, you facilitate strong encouragement. It conveys a sense of "faith" and an "I believe in you" spirit which alone can act as a tremendous source of renewal for someone who is hurting Because helping people in need sets an example for your children, family, and friends.

Because helping others and charitable giving has a profound rippling effect. This is usually a subconscious choice. Once we realize we are involved with someone who makes us feel just as bad as our parent did, however, we feel angry and resentful and try to get our partner to change and love us the way we always wanted to be loved. It becomes painful being with this person because you are constantly reminded of the pain you suffered in the past while your efforts to get your needs for love and respect are continually thwarted.

The key to avoiding this kind of struggle is to become aware of the kind of person you tend to be attracted to based on your own past and to recognize that you cannot change that person. People can only change themselves and only if they want to. And if you don't want a relationship that is similar to a painful relationship from your past, you need to ensure that your current relationship is about mutual love and respect, not struggle.

If your goal is to live happily with a loving partner, you need to focus on the moment, on what's happening today, on what kind of person you're with now in order for that goal to be realized. And the future is created by what you do now.

Even if we want to help but the practical thing to do is for the person to stop being lazy and get it himself. Why help someone when you can help yourself?


 By Rosemarie Sumalinog Gonzales


Article Source: We Can't Help Everyone, But Everyone Can Help Someone

Post a Comment

Informations From: Taun17

Previous Post Next Post
  • What Causes Eczema and Triggers It?

    By Helene M Malmsio Eczema is a skin disease, which is mostly mistaken with other skin allergies like rashes and inflammations. The main cause of eczema is reduced moisture content in the skin which makes the skin damp and an easy target for bacteria to grow over there. Many allopathi... Readmore

  • Economics Book Review - The Ascent of Money, a Financial History of the World by Niall Ferguson

    By Mukesh Saini Cryptocurrency is a digital asset used mainly as a medium of transaction to secure financial transactions, control creation of additional assets and verification of any asset transfers with the help of a strong cryptographic technology. It is also known as a form of digit... Readmore

  • How You Can Add to the Social Currency Value of Your Portfolio

    By Phyllis Mikolaitis When you share practical, useful information your listener can implement, it has social currency. Stories are the best way to package those ideas and information. They will keep your prospect open-minded and generate interest because they want to know what happens next... Readmore

  • Fun With Robotics

    By Prashant Pandve MAVERCK DEN - THINK 'N' DO Robotics can capture a child's imagination like no other tool. Robots promise to transform our lives in myriad ways.From coding to stop-motion animation videos to sewing, the maker movement is becoming more and more popular with kids a... Readmore

  • What 5 Years of Bodybuilding Taught Me About Tackling Mondays

    By Hardeep Singh Anand It's not what it is in the working world, that's for sure. It's not the day where everyone drags their feet into the office, bags under their eyes. It's not the day people sit in front of their computers and start complaining about what a long week it's going to be. A... Readmore

  • Sun Burn Recovery - To Peel Or Not to Peel

    By Tanu Bhattacharya Beware! Sunlight, a major source of UVA and UVB radiation, penetrates deep into the skin cells, excessive exposure to which can potentially result in immune system suppression, eye cataract and multiple skin conditions. While UV rays are known to damage collagen fiber... Readmore

  • How to Find a Hard Working Virtual Assistant

    By Maryvel Tan How to Find a hard Working Virtual Assistant. The Hard Working Virtual Assistant Are you looking for someone who will work for you????? We are here to help you, even if you are away, we are the one who is reliable to work for your company. We are known as a virtual assis... Readmore

  • Data Science Training, Data Science - Machine Learning With Python

    By Jerome Titus Blueocean Learning is an IT consulting, Solutions and Services organization based out of Bangalore for the last 2 decades with a bandwidth to train corporate bodies and individuals alike in all niche technologies. We train organizations of all sizes from SME's to Global C... Readmore

  • Promote Learning Music Lessons to Keep Up With Times

    By Karen K Williams The relation of music and learning is a frequent research topic. Studies show that listening or playing can have an impact positively to the brain. Studies show music engages the brain and teaches learning content. Maximizing the relationship between learning and music h... Readmore

  • Maple Memories

    By Patricia H Kuhnen-Beaver Silver pails hang off dozens of trees as far as the eye can see. My brother and I dredge through the snow away from the barn then head down an icy path. A buttery smell guiding us like a siren into a large cabin. The door swings open with a hefty nudge. In fro... Readmore