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Being Strong When Everything Seems To Be Going Wrong

The tough times that we go through in life tested our patience and endurance. If you are going through hell, keep going. Strength does not come from winning. Your struggles develop your strengths. Never give up even in the midst of hardships. Strength doesn't come from what you can do. Strength comes from overcoming the things you thought you couldn't.

Don't wait for extraordinary opportunities. Seize common occasions and make them great. Despite the difficulties that you encounter, you will be amazed that you can turn your misfortunes into good luck. Being tough doesn't mean that you're not hurt but what matters is to rise every time you fall.

When everything gets tough, only the tough get going because difficult times never last, only the resilient people survive. You will thrive in spite of it. Hardship prepares ordinary people for an extraordinary destiny. Never be ashamed of what you've been through. Other people might judge you but stay strong and move on. Strength isn't about bearing a cross of grief or shame. The greater the obstacle, the more glory in overcoming it.

Don't give up. It's hard to beat a person who never gives up. The first step is you have to say that you can.Strength is the product of struggle, you must do what others don't to achieve what others won't. Remember that our greatest weakness lies in giving up.

Out of our vulnerabilities will come our strength. Become a positivist because in the middle of a difficulty lies an opportunity. Just be strong and keep moving forward. Be reliable and dependable. You need to get a grip and get on with it. You need to deal with it yourself.

You need to suck it up and take that step. It's understandable, right? Our drive to be strong is still a very real force at home, at work and in our relationships. Perhaps it's no wonder that men struggles with their role and identity in a world that offers these confusing messages, and the drive to be strong threatens to screw you over in two big ways.

The need to be strong becomes a way of life, fueled by the need to be in control amid the chaotic, unpredictable world we live in, and driven by the urge to pursue success in a culture that celebrates and elevates the successful.

Strength can sometimes be a useful and appropriate response, of course it can, but when it remains an unchallenged and assumed pattern of behavior the armor it provides becomes part of your identity.

Real confidence comes from ease, not strength. It's arms open rather than arms closed. It's congruence, not in-congruence. It's founded on whole-heartedness rather than steely determination. It's okay. Don't panic. The last thing you need is to "be strong" in the face of this difficult circumstance.

Consider that there might be an easier way that feels good. You don't need to be strong all the time.

An article about how to be strong even if everything seems to go wrong. Its our perseverance and determination to survive and move on despite these struggles in life.


 By Rosemarie Sumalinog Gonzales


Article Source: Being Strong When Everything Seems To Be Going Wrong

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