"From where I sit, it is a mystery to me how so many can look back on their past with pride, yet frown with disappointment at their present. Somehow forgetting that back then, they were just as self-critical, while somehow missing that today they've never, ever, been so close to all they've ever wanted.
Historical dyslexia?
Possibly,
The Universe"
When looking at yourself in the mirror, what do you see? Are you proud with what you see? Would you hope to be in a better place in your life? Do you feel empty inside, and not because you are single, but because you weren't able to achieve all your dreams? Do you think there is a better version of you out there, in a parallel Universe, or maybe on that same planet you live in, YOU can better yourself? Whatever the answer to these questions comes to mind, you are the one who will come up with the best probable answer. It is not about living in your past, about how much money you made, about how great relationships you had and have lost, how this or that with the purpose of comparing your past life with your present life. Why this torture? Will that be productive for you to endeavor on the "should have" approach to life. It is the past so it is important that you leave it behind.
You made choices and it is important to realize that living with these choices is a must for you to move forward with what you want to do from this point forward. There is always a better option when you weigh them all. If you chose this path, that is because that path was the best available then. It is possible that today, that same path taken 10 years ago might not render the same outcome, but this is why it is crucial to always update your goals and dreams. They will always change so why shouldn't you? Keep yourself learning more and always be eager to become better as a person. In reality, this is the ONLY thing you can control in life. You can't avoid sickness, or financial disaster, or loss of family members, or whatever else that can slam at you like a massive tidal wave. You need to come to realization that whatever effort or work you put into something can render various results that can be hard to predict. However, the effort you put in to become a better person will provide you with a lifelong level of peace and satisfaction. Learn the work on yourself first and everything else will follow.
Dr Dan Amzallag, PhD, MBA, CLC
Author/Inspirational Speaker/Life Coach
Free Consultation: 301-325-1550
Website: http://www.lifecoachdanamzallag.com
By Daniel A Amzallag
Article Source: Message From the Universe: Nothing Good Comes From Looking Into Your Past!
Historical dyslexia?
Possibly,
The Universe"
When looking at yourself in the mirror, what do you see? Are you proud with what you see? Would you hope to be in a better place in your life? Do you feel empty inside, and not because you are single, but because you weren't able to achieve all your dreams? Do you think there is a better version of you out there, in a parallel Universe, or maybe on that same planet you live in, YOU can better yourself? Whatever the answer to these questions comes to mind, you are the one who will come up with the best probable answer. It is not about living in your past, about how much money you made, about how great relationships you had and have lost, how this or that with the purpose of comparing your past life with your present life. Why this torture? Will that be productive for you to endeavor on the "should have" approach to life. It is the past so it is important that you leave it behind.
You made choices and it is important to realize that living with these choices is a must for you to move forward with what you want to do from this point forward. There is always a better option when you weigh them all. If you chose this path, that is because that path was the best available then. It is possible that today, that same path taken 10 years ago might not render the same outcome, but this is why it is crucial to always update your goals and dreams. They will always change so why shouldn't you? Keep yourself learning more and always be eager to become better as a person. In reality, this is the ONLY thing you can control in life. You can't avoid sickness, or financial disaster, or loss of family members, or whatever else that can slam at you like a massive tidal wave. You need to come to realization that whatever effort or work you put into something can render various results that can be hard to predict. However, the effort you put in to become a better person will provide you with a lifelong level of peace and satisfaction. Learn the work on yourself first and everything else will follow.
Dr Dan Amzallag, PhD, MBA, CLC
Author/Inspirational Speaker/Life Coach
Free Consultation: 301-325-1550
Website: http://www.lifecoachdanamzallag.com
By Daniel A Amzallag
Article Source: Message From the Universe: Nothing Good Comes From Looking Into Your Past!
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