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You Win Some, You Lose Some

Failure is natural if you are striving to deliver big results. The problem arises only if you fail and refuse to acknowledge it. Take full responsibility and accountability of your actions. By doing so, you are able to open the door to possibility and initiate a different outcome in the future.

Even failure can be compensating if you learn something from it. It can even build career by turning the negative experience into an inspiration to strive for more. Remember that experience is the best teacher. Sometimes there are very real and serious losses; even a collateral damage. Other people are hurt which takes a while to recover. If we keep doing the same things that led us to failure, we are destined to get more failure. We need to have the willingness to make a change.

A good outcome is that you have a set of useful lessons learned which could lead to fresh opportunities and potential resources to advance. At a minimum, you will have commiserated, cleared the air of any fear and put yourself in a place to start anew.

Never allow failure to hold you back from your next endeavor. If you fall off, then you have to get back on track immediately because the failure gets magnified in your mind. Put the past behind you and move forward. If you refuse to get up and get back on, then you are destined to be a loser. The key is to build on the lessons learned and move ahead.

Failures force us to clear out the noise and zero in on what is most important. If you get slammed by a failure and bounce back that is called resilience. If you learn, adjust and actually return better than before, then you have grit.

I know that I failed at some things. I failed my marriage. I failed my family's expectations. But sometimes failing at something is an indication to reveal what is really going on with your life. It is a time to realize your worth. Even if this is incredibly difficult and humbling, I am really grateful for this period in my life. I learned some critical changing lessons. I am convinced that I won't become who I am today if I did not experience losing some at one point in my life.

But not at all times that every failure ends so well. Sometimes, there are people suffer a setback and never recover. These people lack resilience. If you want to win and succeed in life, you must learn how to deal failure courageously.

It's not possible to win all the time nor it is imaginable to succeed at all times. Loses and failures are just part of winning and succeeding. What matters most is to never quit and keep on going to achieve your goals in life.

No matter how many times we failed, we just need to acknowledge our mistakes and take full responsibility of the consequence of our actions. By doing so, we able to move forward.
 
 
 
 
 
 

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